Betty Becker

Betty L. (Waluch) Becker (1930-2013)

Betty L. (Waluch) Becker was born on October 9, 1930 in Kenosha WI to Harold and Edna (Pitts) Gross. She was educated in Kenosha schools, graduating from Kenosha High School in 1948. Betty came from a musical family; her father played the piano and she was a very talented singer, often performing with her brother and closest high school and lifelong friends.

On September 17, 1955 she married Anthony J. Waluch and they were blessed with four children, Jeff, Terry, Mary Jo, and Rudy. They later divorced.  She was a member of PWP (Parents Without Partners) when she met and married Frank H. Becker on October 21, 1978, who had 10 children of his own.  Frank fought a valiant battle with cancer and passed away in January of 1986.  

Betty was gifted with numbers and made her living as an auditor at the First National Bank. She was a meticulous record keeper and conscientious worker, once uncovering a fraud ring that eventually saved the bank hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Betty was an excellent bowler and bowled for the Candlelight club for several years, once boasting a 167 average.   A wonderful cook and an avid card player, Betty took much joy in her family and friends.   Betty was especially fond of picnics and was known for making the world’s best potato salad.   She modeled   loyalty and friendship and was an active member of her Kenosha High School Class of 1948 Reunion Committee.

Betty was patient and kind. She loved to hear from her kids on the phone, especially those who lived far away and always loved to hear stories about her grandchildren and their accomplishments.

Betty loved traveling with her husband Frank out west or going on cruises and camping trips with her in-laws and the close friends she and Frank shared. They enjoyed playing gin till all hours. She and Frank were ardent supporters of Kenosha’s music programs.  They often attended local school concerts in support of their children, and Betty also volunteered joyfully for many years for the Meals on Wheels Program.

Betty had a deep and abiding faith that played out more in her actions than in church rituals.  She was a patient and kind listener, always cheerful and always consistently hopeful for each member of her family.  

Betty is survived by her four loving children Jeffrey R. Waluch of Tennessee, Terry Waluch of Kenosha, Mary Jo Apostolu of Venice FL, and Rudy (Missy) Waluch of Lake Orion MI,.  She is also survived by her six beloved grandchildren, Taylor Anne Waluch,  Charlie Waluch,  Jake Apostolu, Luke Apostolu, Reece Waluch, and Owen Waluch.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Frank, a daughter Jeanne Marie Waluch, her brothers Robert and Dennis Gross, her nephew Jonathon Gross and niece Debbie Gross,   step sons Kurt Becker, Eric Becker, and step daughter Barb Becker Irvin.   .

Betty passed away peacefully on Wednesday February 20th 2013. She was 82 years old.   

To celebrate her life, family and friends are welcome at a Memorial Service for Betty on Monday February 25, 2013 at 3:00PM at Kemper Center’s Founder’s Hall (6501-3rd Ave.). Visitation with the family will take place on Monday in Founder’s Hall from 2:00PM until the time of the service.

Guests are encouraged to bring a story or memory of Betty to share. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Hospice Alliance or Meals on Wheels would be appreciated.


  1. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Waluch and extended family at this most difficult time. What a wonderful and devoted life your mother led and may you find peace in her memories as shared this week with your family and friends.

  2. My deepest sympathies to Rudy and your whole family. May your memories and times shared with your mother help you through this difficult time. My thoughts are with you and yours.

  3. Growing up in the old neighborhood on Green Bay Road, I have indelible memories of Betty always greeting me with a friendly smile. As a kid, I always wanted to “eat supper” at the Waluch’s. Betty’s welcoming presence made me feel comfortable in the Waluch home, even during the countless times Jeff and I got into mischief. I send a thought of support to Jeff, Terry, Mary Jo, and Rudy for the loss of their mother.

  4. My thoughts and prayers go out to all the Waluch Gang, Jeff, Terry, Mary, and Rudy. May your loving memories of your mom get you through this difficult time.

  5. our condolances to the waluch family tony jeff terry mary jo and rudy and there families .I often think of the great visit we all had years ago when in kenosha for a cousins wedding. your mom had us all laughing with here stories.great lady who will be missed by all who knew here and will miss here dearly.our mom/dad always enjoyed recieving a christmas card from aunt betty.sending our love always.steve/maryellen waluch and family


Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *